45
Ibid.
46
Eugene Kennedy, On Being a Friend (New York: Ballantine Books, 1987), 109.
47
Diane von Furstenberg, "Clarity Is the Most Important Thing. I Can Compare Clarity…" QuoteTab, URL: http://quotetab.com/quote/by-diane-von-furstenberg/clarity-is-the-most-important-thing-i-can-compare-clarity-to-pruning-in-gardenin (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
48
Robin Dunbar, Friends: Understanding the Power of Our Most Important Relationships (New York: Little, Brown Book Group, 2021), 69–72.
49
Christian J. Buys and Kenneth L. Larson, "Human Sympathy Groups," https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.2466/pr0.1979.45.2.547.
50
Cox, "The State of American Friendship: Change, Challenges, and Loss".
51
Suzanne Degges-White, "Friendology: The Science of Friendship," Psychology Today, May 29, 2018, URL: https://psychologytoday.com/us/blog/lifetime-connections/201805/friendology-the-science-friendship (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
52
Доула – помощница в родах, женщина, осуществляющая профессиональный уход за роженицей, оказывающая ей непрерывную психологическую, физическую и информационную поддержку в процессе родов.
53
Carolyn Weisz, interview by author, Philadelphia, February 14, 2023.
54
Счастливый час (Happy Hour) в Америке – это особое время дня (обычно между 16:00 и 18:00 или 19:00), когда бары и рестораны предлагают специальные скидки и акции. Эта традиция возникла в США после отмены сухого закона.
55
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Galang Lufityanto, Chris Donkin, and Joel Pearson, "Measuring Intuition: Nonconscious Emotional Information Boosts Decision Accuracy and Confidence," Psychological Science, 27(5) (April 6, 2016): 622–34, URL: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27052557/ (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
57
Daniel Kahneman, "Maps of Bounded Rationality: A Perpective on Intuitive Judgement and Choice," December 8, 2002, URL: http://nobelprize.org/uploads/2018/06/kahnemann-lecture.pdf (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
58
Socrates, Quotes.net, URL: http://quotes.net/quote/932 (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
59
Eugene Kennedy, "Catholicism's Central Teaching: How to Be Imperfect," National Catholic Reporter, October 19, 2012, URL: http://ncronline.org/blogs/bulletins-human-side/catholicisms-central-teaching-how-be-imperfect (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Tom Rath, Vital Friends: The People You Can't Afford to Live Without (New York: Gallup Press, 2006), 35–38.
61
Ibid., 37.
62
"What Are Workplace Buddies Worth?" Gallup, October 12, 2006, URL: http://news.gallup.com/businessjournal/24883/what-workplace-buddies-worth.aspx (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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"Deadly and Connecting Habits," William Glasser Institute, accessed August 19, 2023, URL: https://wglasser.com/quickstart-guide-to-choice-theory/.
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Gottman and Declaire, The Relationship Cure: A 5 Step Guide to Strengthening Your Marriage, Family, and Friendships, 264–74.
65
"Deadly and Connecting Habits".
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Epstein, "5 Reasons People Stay in Unhappy Friendships".
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Heather Havrilesky, "Ask Polly: 'Should I Dump My Toxic Friend?'" The Cut, May 2, 2018, URL: https://www.thecut.com/2018/05/ask-polly-should-i-dump-my-toxic-friend.html (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
68
Marisa Franco, interview by author, Philadelphia, May 6, 2023.
69
Adam J. Teterus, interview by author, Philadelphia, April 10, 2023.
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Octavius A. Newman and Adam J. Teterus, "#042: I Have Mutagens In My Blood", Comic Book Junto, October 6, 2016, URL: http://open.spotify.com/episode/0aRiZ76fQ3YHnEkAZZNaXP (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
71
Adam J. Teterus, interview by author, Philadelphia, April 10, 2023.
72
Dunbar, Friends, 200–206.
73
C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves (San Diego: Harvest Books, 1971), 66–67.
74
Ibid., 66.
75
Dunbar, Friends, 203.
76
Gail Matthews, "The Impact of Commitment, Accountability, and Written Goals on Goal Achievement," Psychology Faculty Presentations, January 1, 2007, URL: https://scholar.dominican.edu/psychology-faculty-conference-presentations/3/ (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Christian Langkamp, Practical Friendship (Books on Demand, 2021).
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Suzanne Degges-White, interview by author, Philadelphia, April 17, 2023.
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Meik Wiking, The Art of Making Memories: How to Create and Remember Happy Moments (New York: William Morrow, 2019), 14–15.
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Meik Wiking, interview by author, Philadelphia, March 22, 2023.
82
Katherine Handcock, "Pilots in Evening Gowns: When Amelia Earhart and Eleanor Roosevelt Took to the Skies," April 20, 2023, URL: http://amightygirl.com/blog?p=25357 (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Jeffrey A. Hall et al., "Quality Conversation Can Increase Daily Well-Being," Communication Research, January 27, 2023, URL: DOI:10.1177/00936502221139363 (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Danielle Bayard Jackson, interview by author, Philadelphia, February 27, 2023.
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Хендриксен Э. Социальная тревожность: Как перестать избегать общения и избавиться от неловкости. – М.: Бомбора, 2021.
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Ellen Hendriksen, interview by author, Philadelphia, February 8, 2023.
87
Jenee Desmond-Harris, "Help! My Niece's Elopement Plan Is about to Tear Our Family Apart," Slate, August 18, 2022, URL: https://slate.com/human-interest/2022/08/dear-prudence-elopement-family-drama.html (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
88
Suzanne Degges-White and Judy Pochel Van Tieghem, Toxic Friendships: Knowing the Rules and Dealing with the Friends Who Break Them (Lanham: Rowman & Littlefield, 2015), 74.
89
Американская комедия 1984 года с Молли Рингвальд в главной роли.
90
Ibid.
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Parks Australia, "History of Uluru – Kata Tjuta National Park," 2017, URL: http://parksaustralia.gov.au/uluru/discover/history/ (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Parks Australia, "Please Don't Climb Uluru," 2017, URL: http://parksaustralia.gov.au/uluru/discover/culture/uluru-climb/.
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Anna Codrea-Rado, "A Night in the Club, Then Early to Bed," New York Times, February 9, 2023, URL: https://nytimes.com/2023/02/09/arts/music/before-midnight-annie-mac.html (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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Anna Codrea-Rado, "What Tweak Would Make Your Life Better?" A-Mail, February 17, 2023, URL: http://annacodrearado.substack.com/p/one-small-tweak-thread (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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M. Mahdi Roghanizad and Vanessa K. Bohns, "Ask in Person: You're Less Persuasive than You Think over Email," Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 69 (March 2017): 223–26, URL: https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/78048817.pdf (дата обращения: 04.05.2025).
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Vanessa Bohns, "A Face-to-Face Request Is 34 Times More Successful Than an Email," Harvard Business Review, April 11, 2017, URL: https://hbr.org/2017/04/a-face-to-face-request-is-34-times-more-successful-than-an-email (дата обращения: 23.04.2025).
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